How to Talk to People
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How to Talk to People

Self-Carelessness with Coachinger
Matthew Coachinger
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Today we shall look at the often forgotten, quite problematic, or even embarrassing matter that is other people and their notorious existence. Once they get on the right path, each novice can clearly see how great an obstacle to self-development those around us are. Once this dreadful truth reaches our consciousness, we immediately ask ourselves: How was I able to live among all these inveterates until now? How am I supposed to treat them? How do I talk to them?

Many adepts try to solve this problem in the spirit of Heedlessness. They try to somewhat diffuse it, that is, care deeply about what others say and do, and then fully ignore it – alternately, in chaotic, irregular cycles – until these two extremes merge into one master–slave, coherently incoherent approach. Even those who have not yet entered the path

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The Practice of Heedlessness

Self-Carelessness with Coachinger
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The stakes are high – the truly Heedless mind is never ‘here and now’.

Many novices have an entirely erroneous idea of what Heedlessness actually is. They think it is enough to trip over furniture and objects scattered around the flat until they eventually crack their skull open, then post a selfie from the A&E and wait for likes and comments from concerned friends, family and followers: “Oh, how heedless you are!” Such an approach is, however, wrong. People who act in this way are not heedless at all. Some of them are just messy. Others are fashionistas. As soon as the current Heedlessness trend passes, they will most likely abandon the idea and treat it as one of those rebellious, youthful episodes one does not put on the CV, but still brags about during a fag break at work to sound like someone unusual; someone with lots under their belt.

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