A Chance for Gifts of Fate A Chance for Gifts of Fate
Dreams and Visions

A Chance for Gifts of Fate

An Interview with Educator Allyson Apsey
Maria Hawranek
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Great things can be found where we least expect. Maria Hawranek talks to educator Allyson Apsey about serendipity and its use in education.

When a child with behavioral issues joins a school, there’s an opportunity for teachers to develop new tools. When a student is struggling to master a skill, it’s worth looking for other ways to help them learn it. Failed to achieve something you strived for? Perhaps a space for something new has just opened in your life.

Maria Hawranek: When you finished high school, you were convinced you’d never again set foot in one. And yet, somehow, you’ve been a school principal for over twenty years. How did that come about?

Allyson Apsey: I didn’t see value in a lot of what I was asked to do in school. To me, it felt like doing the work for the sake of doing the work and not about me as an individual. I didn’t think my teachers saw me as a person, they saw a student. I hated homework and thought it was ridiculous to spend hours at home on top of the hours at school. Although I loved to read and learn, I didn’t feel like I was able to learn about things I was passionate about in school. Perhaps, I don’t like being told what to do in general. Sitting in a classroom all day long, being told what to do, wasn’t my idea of a time well spent.

What happened next?

I went to study business at a community college in my town because I didn’t know what else to do. In my sophomore year, the psychology class I was attending was dropped. The only class I could find that fit into my schedule and would fulfill the same requirement was educational psychology. On the first day of class, the professor asked, “Who wants to become a teacher or pursue a career in education?” Every single person in the class raised their hand, except for me. Still, I needed to fulfill the requirements of the class, and I had to go volunteer in a classroom. My aunt was

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“The whole purpose of childhood is to allow us to have a new generation that is going to see things and understand things in a different way.” Alison Gopnik, psychologist and philosopher, urges mothers and fathers, grandmas and grandpas, aunts and uncles to take risks. Let children experiment (even if they want to become carpenters, not doctors). I love people who turn stereotypes, common sense ideas or so-called evident truths upside down. Providing, of course, that they do it with concern for scientific and philosophical credibility. One of those people is Alison Gopnik, a psychologist and philosopher at the University of California, Berkeley, one of the most distinguished modern researchers studying childhood. That’s why her books on babies’ minds (especially The Philosophical Baby) and, more recently, parenthood (The Gardener and the Carpenter) are so fascinating and refreshing.

Gopnik doesn’t beat around the bush. She says there is a pervasive, culturally-entrenched myth that parents have a great influence on their children; that they shape them like the potter’s experienced hands shape a piece of clay. This myth is not only false but also harmful. Parenthood isn’t about playing a god who creates another human being in his own image. Quite the opposite: for a child freedom is essential, Gopnik says, adding that another thing of great educational value is diversity. The more people around you the better. Nothing beats a huge, multi-generational family in which everyone, not just mum and dad, is responsible for raising a child. Especially if you add a pinch of anarchy, disorder and chaos. That’s the best possible environment – order and discipline cannot compare.

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